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Tuesday, January 21, 2014

how to make five days feel like three 48 hour days

wow, what a crazy, long, exhausting past 5 days it's been. lemeeesplain.

thursday morning casey goes to school. all day long i clean the house, do 4 loads of laundry, prepare food, and pack for the weekend. 5 pm we begin our drive to indiana to watch our niece and nephew for the weekend. our 10 hour drive turned into 13 with AWFUL snow and wind conditions all along the way. casey only let me drive 45 min so he pretty much drove all night long up to 6 am without a break. i felt so bad for the guy (but apparently not bad enough in my sleepy state to do anything about it). we were so blessed we didn't get in an accident. even though i got to sleep most the time in the car after 1 am, once i woke up in the morning it felt like i hadn't slept all night or that feeling of when you have a terrible night with a newborn and even though your "sleep time" was 8 hours you were up at least every hour and you just feel awful. so that was thursday night/friday morning.

friday was so much fun because we got to see family! we snuck in a few naps here and there so we could survive the rest of the day but were still on the fence of being tired vs not tired.

saturday was really fun with all the kids together except that at 10 am i get a text  from casey saying he rolled his ankle really bad during church basketball and can barely walk…fun. so saturday is spent taking care of 4 children, it was a little exhausting to say the least. (but also really good for me to be able to 100% serve and attend to casey's needs for once instead of me constantly asking him to do things for me).

sunday. well sunday morning maxson was awake from 3-5 not happy for reasons i can only guess were teething mixed with sleeping in a different environment? not sure really, that was extremely tiring. we forgot to set our alarm for 9 am church. instead we woke up to all the children happily deciding they wanted to wake up at 8:10 (not complaining to that time at all). we slightly rushed to church. i say slightly because i was in no hurry to stress myself out of trying to get here on time. casey and i got there with the 3 kids i ended up getting there with 4 children in tow around 9:45. overall church went smoothly the rest of the time we were there since most of the time i only had to take care of maxson and i gave up that day went the easy route and just let him roam the halls most of the sunday school hour. after church we lost all 3 children at the same time in the building for about 15 seconds: maxson started running down the hall away from casey after i gave maxson to casey to watch, brielle was hiding behind the coats, and jaden had legitimately run off minutes earlier. and all this time casey can pretty much only stand there and be a warm body to help. the rest of the sunday only involved minor melt downs and casey was a tad more mobile with crutches.

sunday night cody and camille got home from their anniversary trip and we had the best evening with them. we stayed up until 1:30 am chatting away. if you know night-time-kimber well at all, that must have been a really fun night, i am very much a baby when it comes to staying up late and begin to get ready for bed at 11 almost always, the absolute latest i can stay awake is midnight. so it really was such a fun night with them.

we planned to leave when we woke up monday morning just as the day went, maybe max would wake up at 8 and we'd leave by 9:30? well after we went to sleep at 1:30 i was restless for the next hour for some reason. then at 2:30 am or so maxson starts coughing a bit and kind of waking up and a few cries here and there and we just stayed in our bed in hopes he'd get over and go back to sleep. by 2:45 i just didn't feel good with the different sounds he's making, they weren't his normal wake up in the middle of the night cries. so i check on him at the foot of our bed to find that he's thrown up :( i felt like such an awful mom. he was in such a sad state: pale, little head strength and body control, he couldn't control his eyes it seemed, it was so sad and scary. it didn't feel like the scene of a "normal" sick throwing up person so asked casey to give him a priesthood blessing. the next hour and a half involved cleaning up his sleeping area and him and packing up all our stuff to go, we figured that since we were very awake at 3 am we might as well all just leave. casey stayed cuddling max on the couch with a cup ready to catch anything that came out and it did. the whole hour and half until we left maxson went between sleeping and a state of sleeping/throwing up that was so sad.

we left around 4:30 am. i drove the first hour and half while casey took care of maxson in the back, i think he only threw up once or twice more and it was very easily contained with the cup and bib, the rest of the time they slept. casey then drove for an hour because i couldn't keep my eyes open any longer. really casey probably shouldn't be driving because of his very purple/swollen foot but i couldn't do it. i was out that whole hour in an instant, even if it was uncomfortable, i was so exhausted. the rest of the trip we switched off driving every hour so the other could try to get some sleep. somehow maxson always timed his sleep while i drove and his awake time while i was in the back with him.  i don't think i've ever been this tired in my life and had to keep going like this. SO TIRED. luckily we did have dad is fat by jim gaffigan to listen to while we drove to help keep us awake half the time, he was so funny. only a funny audio book like this truly kept us from falling asleep at the wheel. the very last 1 1/2 hour leg to our home maxson timed his sleeping while i was in the back with him. i woke up to feeling like a brand new person. what an hour of sleep does to you!!!!!! we made great time getting home in 10 1/2 hours. 

once we unloaded the car we headed to the urgent care to learn that casey has 2 fractures in his foot. yayyyyyyyyyy! not. he has a super intense moon boot he gets to wear around because of it. poor casey. we'll be going to a foot/ankle doctor this week to discuss what to do about it.

once max woke up from his like 3 hour nap in the car he was back to happy normal maxson with a ravishing appetite from fasting for so long.

so that incredibly long monologue is why 5 days felt like three 48 hour days

note to C&C: this trip was 100% worth all that pain we went through, we love love love seeing you guys

and here are the random pictures that go along with the trip
(i barely took any this trip seeing that we were so busy, but do know my niece and nephew were oober fun and we had a great weekend in indiana)
a. we reached 200,000 miles on our little car! good job corolla. this picture was actually taken at 199,999.9 miles at 9 degrees fahrenheit .
b. we made homemade pretzels twice while there. oh how i love thee bread machine. i'll share my recipe at some point.
c. flowers from casey as a pre-thankyou for playing video games all saturday night with friends (this was before his foot thing happened)
d. it was snowing beautifully outside all weekend so i wanted to take all 3 kids outside to play in the snow. ha, it was quite the exhausting adventure. this was the mess that ensued.
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a. barney
b. sick maxson on the car ride back to nebraska
c. trying to sleep in the back of the car
d. either his shirt shrunk or his belly grew from the last time he wore this
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a. at urgent care
b. his super sweet moon boot
c. & d. nasty swollen/bruised foot. the bruising is beginning to go into his toes nearly 4 days later
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and these were just random pictures from today while i wrote this long blog post of our weekend. maxson has been obsessed with pulling up his shirt all day and finding his belly button or just pulling it up for fun. gosh darn it if it's not the cutest thing to watch today. look at how big his belly is!
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and 2 random photos from our trip in az i hadn't put up
a. maxson on the slide at the park, my mom took this
b. the crown braids whitney did on our hair all week long whenever we begged her to do it. did mine turn out stellar or what? whitney is a pro hair stylist, seriously go get your hair done by her, you will love me for going to her (i can get you in contact with her if you want)
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Monday, September 9, 2013

that one time we were in arizona

a month later...
we swam everyday.
it was glorious.
played with family everyday.
vacationing is great.
i want my own pool now.
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an arizona sunrise
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and a sunset
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ruthie kept pushing the buttom to make it turn on and off, maxson was just so happy to play with the moving red dots
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back before i was born, my mom made this cool tent at a church activity. over 20 years later, the fabric is still durable and the sewing sturdy. now the grandkids love playing in the tent!
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on our way home
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i listened to this WONDERFUL talk on marriage last week.
it is seriously such a beautiful message to all, whatever your faith!

"Marriage is a gift from God to us; the quality of our marriages is a gift from us to Him"

ps- i also updated my photo blog, kcutlerphoto.blogspot.com of a recent photo shoot :)

Wednesday, August 21, 2013

our trip to cali: more at the beach

the second half of the week family from utah came in and we spent everyday at the beach.
we love the beach.
it's just so relaxing.
and the sun was out beautifully everyday so there was an extra amount of pretty pictures taken ;)
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a few special notes if you're going to the beach with little babes:

*baby powder*
it truly does work wonders on getting sand off any skin area.
it made our baby's bums so much happier when switching from swim diaper to regular diaper when not around a shower

*a baby carrier and stroller*
we are lucky enough to be in walking distance to the beach.
we would haul our stroller down there with all the bags, food, towels, umbrellas, etc in it while i carried maxson on my back in the ergo.
best idea ever.
no ones backs hurt from carrying heavy bags or heavy babies.
and then when maxson needed to nap, we'd just recline the stroller seat, put him in there, and cover him with my favorite nursing cover (more on that later).

*lather sunscreen on before you go to the beach*
we made sure to cover ourselves and maxson before we left our time share when going to the beach.
it made the whole sunscreen experience better plus it was easier:
the sunscreen had time to set on your skin before getting wait.
there was no rush job on applying sunscreen because there was no beach directly in front lulling you to the waves.
no sand was in sight while applying therefore there was no sand in your sunscreen.
it's all around better

*bring grandparents*
ha but no really, bring someone who can help watch your little babe so you too can go have fun with your hubby in the waves and not have to fret about your wee ones the whole time.

Monday, August 19, 2013

our trip to cali: the beach

lucky for us, the day casey's family reunion ended, my parent's time share in almost the same area began.
timing could not have been better.
we mostly just played at the beach for a week straight.
the first half of the week some of the family from arizona was there,
and the second half family from utah.

we boogie boarded lots,
built/dug sand castles,
we crawled in the sand next to maxson,
buried out feet in the sand,
ran away from waves,
dug for little sand crabs,
lulled babies asleep as we walked along the beach,
let the sun soak into our skin (while practically bathed in sunscreen).
and as we sat under umbrella eating our lunch we would say "isn't this so wonderful, i wish we could always do this"
so here's the first bit of our beach adventures while the arizona family was there.
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don't worry, there's plenty more where this came from ;)